As an EFT (Emotion Focussed Therapy) practitioner, our focus would be on the importance of recognising the negative cycle that you uniquely repeat in your relationship dynamic. Importantly, this is a co-created dynamic that each of you contributes to. I will work closely with you as a couple in identifying your unique patterns of interaction to move away from blame and towards a deeper understanding of how each person’s unique attachment needs and fears contribute to this co-created dynamic so that change and growth become possible. We can unmask this deep-rooted emotionally charged dynamic and learn to interact with greater understanding and compassion so that we can move forward together with empathy for one another’s unique experience.